I think Japanese girls are some of the most beautiful and interesting of Asian women, and they come from an incredible culture that is filled with fascinating customs and traditions.
But I’ve also found that if you want to learn how to pick up Japanese girls, you’ve first got to understand some of the differences between their culture, and ours.
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I had my first Japanese girlfriend back when I was attending college in New York City, and since then I’ve learned a lot about how to pick up Japanese girls.
These principles apply whether you’re in Japan, or you meet a Japanese girl in your home town.
Here are three quick tips to keep in mind as you learn how to pick up Japanese girls…
1. I’ve figured out many different ways to approach Japanese girls and start conversations, but one of my favorites is the “cell phone” tactic. Japanese people have a passion for high-tech gadgets, and hot Japanese girls are usually packing a new, popular model of cell phone.
When I see a beautiful Japanese girl that I want to meet, I usually only need to wait a short while before she pulls out her phone to check her text messages, or make a call.
When she finishes, I’ll approach her in a friendly manner and say, “Excuse me, could you tell me what kind of phone you have? I need to buy a birthday gift for a friend of mine, and I know she’d love a new cell phone. Yours looks really cool..”
The Japanese girl will usually be happy to tell you about her cool phone, and its features. Ask her if you can try out the built-in camera, and take a picture of her. Japanese girls LOVE posing for pictures.
She will then huddle in close with you to see how her picture turned out. Now you’ve closed the “physical gap,” and you’re laughing and chatting with her.
2. Make a specific plan to see her again. Don’t offer a weak suggestion like, “Maybe if you’re free sometime, we could hang out and do something.” Japanese girls respect a man with a PLAN. A man who is not afraid to lead.
When you make a vague suggestion about seeing her again, you’re only going to confuse her and cause her to tune out.
Instead, lay out a plan that she can easily agree to. Tell her there’s a great new restaurant you heard about, that you’re planning to try out next weekend, and suggest that she come along with you.
I have found that Japanese girls love to dine out and enjoy a variety of different cuisines.
They also love good coffee. This is another solid suggestion for a first date. Just don’t suggest something predictable, like Starbucks.
Instead, mention your favorite “off the radar” coffee spot that most people don’t know about, but they have the BEST coffee and desserts in town. This will get her interested.
With other types of women, I might suggest trying to meet them for a drink at a bar. Japanese girls usually aren’t so interested in drinking alcohol. Many of them can’t handle it, and actually feel sick and light-headed after only one drink. Much better to lay out a plan that involves great food, or awesome coffee. Make it sound as appealing as possible.
3. When it’s time to meet her, always be punctual. Japanese culture runs on very tight schedules. In Japan, there is no such thing as being “fashionably late,” the way American women will typically show up 15 or 20 minutes late to their dates.
Be right on time, because you can expect her to do the same. If you arrive late, she will take it as a sign of disrespect — that you don’t feel she is important.
You can also expect her to show up looking her best. One thing I love about Japanese girls is that unlike American women, they won’t go out in public “dressed down.” They always look neat and presentable.
You should follow the same rule. I’m not saying you need to show up wearing a suit and tie, but you must be well-groomed and a bit “dressed up” for the occasion.
Don’t meet her wearing the same outfit that you would wear to meet your buddies for a beer.
These are just a few quick pointers. Learning how to pick up Japanese girls involves knowing a lot of other things about their culture, and how to make them feel comfortable, curious and interested in you.